Not only are sexual organs poor judges of character, but sex should never be used as a basis for working out what the hell is going on in your relationship – if you’re defaulting to sex, it’s because it’s lacking on other fronts.
It’s very difficult to gauge someone’s true character and intent immediately – time and experience demonstrates this.
But once you discover that someone’s interest isn’t mutual and that they don’t want the relationship you want, it’s time to pull your pants up and flush them out of your life. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.
Persisting will leave you feeling devalued – something you can be spared from if you don’t let your ego or libido blind you. Whether it’s figuring out what’s going on in a troubling relationship, understanding you and self-care, or being more assertive, I’m here to help you guide you.
You reason that it’s pretty obvious that you’re crazy about them, so surely they wouldn’t be stringing you along?
It also doesn’t matter if you want more; if they don’t and you continue to sleep with them, they assume you are on their terms.“I’m having a really good time you know, but let’s not ruin things. “Well…I just don’t want you to get all serious on me, because being honest with you, I’m not really looking for a relationship right now… ” Er, well no it’s not OK but what the hell are you supposed to say when you’re lying there naked in a room that reeks of sex?